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Post by Anna on Nov 27, 2013 21:53:39 GMT
No I get what you mean, it isn't so much thinking that he couldn't do those things therefore you are in denial but more to the point you would never have imagined it so it comes as a shock to hear it. I get why some teenagers are really upset because they don't realize the effect someones music had on them is totally separate from that person. Lets face it, you could have a teacher or doctor or something else that turned out to be a mass murderer or a pedophile, but once when you were down they gave you advice that saved your life, or maybe they actually physically saved your life, or as in this case the music made you feel you could get through anything. Now that person might be tarnished in your memory but the advice/music/act of kindness doesn't get tarnished just by association. You don't have to stick up for that person for that impact on your life to still be important, adults realize that the two are separate. Bad, terrible people can still do good things, the person might become a monster in your eyes but their good deeds, the music this man created, isn't a byproduct of his vileness, it is the good that came out of him even if it actually is an outcome of something worse the meaning it has to you shouldn't change. Some teenagers are "over reacting" because in their eyes they won't detach from the person, LostProphets music = Ian Watkins but Ian Watkins wasn't the only person recording those songs to begin with and if their music has an effect positively on your life then you shouldn't just disregard it. It is very much like Operation Yewtree, I think I am lucky that most of the people that the operation is naming weren't "my" era in a way that I'm not attached to any of them. This is the closest to being attached I can be and even then it isn't much as I only really kind of heard a song or two. People start feeling sorry for themselves or smashing CDs up and such what because they think it'll make them in a way guilty by associations but what these people did in their job, the TV, music, films whatever are more then the sum of one person and fans shouldn't feel anything. You can choose not to listen/watch anymore that is fair enough but by deleting it all out of your mind it doesn't stop the fact these people did these things. It isn't anyones faults other than their own for doing these things, all of them were adults when they did it. Though I feel I've gone off of the point with that and apologise. I do agree that I find that a strange reason to start taking drugs if that is true. Just because some people found inspiration in these things (in a totally different era as well) doesn't mean it is the way to go. If they became famous before he took any drugs why didn't he just carry on with what inspired him before? It is a very weak excuse for doing something stupid really. Hehe yeah that is the long way of saying it . I love their music and always will, they haven't really effected my life the way that say Rammstein have (that is my bad day music to cheer me up or just staring at a photo of Schnieder for a day or so will cheer me up!) but I can kind of understand why some people feel... For want of a better phrase "let down" by it. They looked up to him and he knew that, any celeb knows that, he abused his status and at first tried to make it out that it was a conspiracy and people of all ages that look up to him, that his music touched and saved, believed in him. Everyone feels sorry for the victims but this whole "laugh at the fans" and such is sad. I used to have many posters of Ian Watkins on my wall, for years! I think some of them only came off my wall early last year. I still have millions of photos of Schneider on my computer, loads of Rammstein photos on my wall and every song of theirs on my iPhone. If something like this came out about one of them I'd feel pretty devastated, it sounds stupid but it probably does feel like a violation of some unwritten trust or something that a fan feels about their idols. It probably shouldn't happen but it does especially if you listen to their music in your youth and get "connected" to it within your life. I agree that the impact their music has on your life shouldn't change and people ripping up t-shirts and smashing CDs need to calm down, for a start LostProphets were more then just Watkins and the impact it had on your life doesn't disappear because it turns out he was a monster. I know none of us will do it but just a warning, keep the talk about the issues and nothing to do with the victims please there have been friendly warnings (official friendly warnings) about trying to find out info on the victims, also if you bump into any info on the two women please keep it to yourselves. Even though we're a tiny piece of the internet that probably won't ever be noticed I don't want us noticed for the wrong reasons!
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